Enjoying Solitary Male Chastity
One of the
things I have noticed about my male
chastity experience is that I now have a greater acceptance of things
around me that I never paid any attention to in the past. The grass seems
greener, the flowers smell better, and even the sky is bluer all thanks to the
fact that I am not distracted by what my cock is doing in my pants. Now that my
mind is on the things around me, it’s so much easier to enjoy life and have as
much fun as I can possibly have. This is certainly something that I would never
have dreamed could happen just because of a little device. But that’s exactly
what has happened for me and it can happen that way for you, too, if you want.
Now, I have
had other things in my life that I have enjoyed wearing, but there is nothing
out there that can compare to what these chastity devices will do for you. In
fact, if you take everything that you currently own that makes you happy, roll
it all up into a little ball, that is the type of feeling you are going to have
while wearing something like this. Words really can’t describe the sensations
that your body will go through when you hear that lock clicking together and
know that there is nothing you can do about it until you are allowed to take it
off again.
I don’t have
a Key Holder to speak of, so my male
chastity progress is done by using a time safe. I simply put the key in the
safe, input the amount of time I want it to remain locked and go about my life.
Of course, if you are going to do something like this for the first time, then
you will probably want to make sure that you can handle the amount of time you
are putting into that safe. Nothing is worse than finding out you can’t go that
long and the safe is still locked. However, I’ve learned that I’ve got more self-control
than I thought I would since I’m the one that’s in control of how long I can
keep the device on without removing it.
When I first
started I only put in a couple of days for the time safe and if I felt that I
could go longer, then I would add another day to it. In this way, I had the
option of being able to take my device off every day at a specific time. If I
didn’t feel the need or I was comfortable with continuing to wear it, then I
could go another day or two until I was ready to take it off. This really
helped me build up my stamina and patience after a few weeks.
It has been
almost two months since the last time the safe opened for my male chastity key and I am just as
happy today as I was two months ago. I have had no issues with needing to take
my device off and I have started to see everything around me in a completely
different way. Best of all, I have found a partner that loves the fact that I
am wearing a device like this so that she can enjoy spending more time with me
without sex coming into the middle of things. It lets us know each other on a
much deeper level.
I told her
right away that I was wearing a chastity device so that if she felt it was odd
she could freely walk away without anyone getting hurt. I also didn’t want to
spring something like that on her out of nowhere. I could just imagine the look
on her face after a night out; sitting on the bed getting ready to explore our
sexuality together and my pants come down. The glistening metal of my chastity
cage reflecting in the candle light as she screams and runs away.
Yes, any guy
that is interested in male chastity
but doesn’t have anyone special in his life needs to consider something like
that happening every time he meets someone. Sometimes it’s better to just come
out and tell that person that you have a locked cage around your cock rather
than to surprise them with something that they aren’t going to understand. If
you tell them first, like I did, then there is a good chance that you can have
an actual discussion about it and explain why you are wearing it. It sure beats
looking like a complete pervert by a total stranger.
We have been
together for a month now and she is very excited for the safe to finally open
so that we can have some fun together. We do very well with me pleasing all of
her needs, but she is looking forward to a bit more than just foreplay. I just
hope that I can hold up my end of the deal because she can go for hours and my
poor little guy hasn’t seen any action for a very long time. I am sure that I
will explode way too early for her, but I will try to keep going regardless.
No matter
what you might think about guys wearing male
chastity items and not having a partner to share it with, if you just tried
it out you would understand. It’s not about the sex when you don’t have a
partner around you. It’s about letting yourself enjoy the life that is around
you and seeing things differently. The wonders that are around us are
outstanding, but I never saw them before I started wearing my device. That is
something that you are going to have to experience on your own someday.
Go out there
and see what chastity items can do for you. You can wear one all the time and
see things you never saw in the past, and then go home and ponder those things
like never before. Whereas, before, you would have been looking at any ass that
happened to walk by and get a stir out of you. If you take the sex out of
everyday life, then you are going to find that you have been missing out on a
lot of things. But wearing your chastity device means that you can start
enjoying those things on a regular basis. Even if you aren’t enjoying them, you
can at least notice that they are there and plan on enjoying them later on if
the time is right for you.
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