More of my male chastity training

Continued from a couple days ago.

 

Male chastity and me

So had did it all start. My girlfriend and I were in a very
vanilla relationship. Regular sex though she knew I sometimes had sex with
other men and I was completely open about it and if she was interested in
having sex with other women that would be great too. Looking back there were
little signs that I picked up from here that should have offered warning but
they were very subtle sign and I feel most men would have missed them too.
Early on my girlfriend was into anal sex but she preferred to do things to me.
During sex she would always probe with her fingers. At first I was
uncomfortable with this type of play mostly because I had never had a woman do
this to me but she loved doing it and over time I enjoyed it. I had no idea at
the time that many women who are into male chastity training use this as a
control method and milking becomes a regular deal for many male chastity men.
She started by fingering my ass while I was fucking her but after I would
finish she would continue trying to work more fingers in.  She would tell me she enjoyed the feel of
being inside of me and the play would lead to multiple orgasms on my part. One
day she told me she would like to use a strap on dildo on me and that this
night would be just for pleasing me. Another control I found out later that
many women view using a strap on dildo with a man as a dominate position. I
wanted to make her happy so I let her. She would pound me for hours loving the
feeling of being in control. She started off with very small dildos but over a
few months worked her way up to larger and larger ones where I went from small
4” models to thick 8” dildos. This was all part of her plan. Each time she went
to a larger size she would let me know how proud she was of me which of course
made me feel good and how excited it got her which was true often her vagina
would be dripping wet after my orgasm but she would not let me enter her. It
was always her sitting on my face eating it until she had a massive orgasm
squirting her juice all over my face. I know now that face sitting is another
male chastity method used in training but back when we were doing it for me it
was all about pleasing her.

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Male chastity Make Him Obey You

Make Him Obey You

The thought
of wearing a male chastity device is
something that can make some men fall on their knees and beg for mercy from
their partners. These guys know that their partners are serious when they start
talking about locking their cocks up in a device that actually causes pain when
you get an erection. Now, this is a great way of controlling your male partner
for the most part, but if you use it as an idle threat, then eventually they
are going to figure out that you don’t actually have a device and they will
start to defy you at every turn.

This means
that you are actually going to have to go to Koalaswim.com and purchase a male chastity device. In this way, you
can show them that you actually own one and you aren’t afraid to use it if that
is what you need to do. Make sure they understand that once it gets put o,n
there is nothing they can do to take it off and they will do whatever you ask
them to. To prove your point, you should let them hold it for a bit so that
they can see exactly what is going to happen to them if they defy you one more
time.

 

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Male chastity how did it happen to me? a multi part post

Male chastity: How did it happen to me?

You never think something like male chastity will become
part of your lifestyle or at least I don’t think most men think that. I do believe
there are many more women who would like to keep their men in a state of male
chastity, in control of their man’s sexual experiences, with no worries about
their boyfriends or husbands cheating on them. I also believe like many women
do that men are programmed by nature to cheat and not to be monogamous. We are
programmed to some degree to spread our seeds and mate with as many women as we
can. I think that is true with gay and bi men. I have many gay friends who are
very much into having sex as often as possible. Spreading your seed has little
to do with your sexual orientation. When I did have a sex life I was completely
into women but considered myself bi. I would have sex with a man I was attracted
to. Most often these men were more likely to be guys like myself who are on the
feminine side. This is going to be a long multi part post on how I ended up a
total male chastity slave at first it was forced on me but with the love of my
girlfriend and support from other men and women who are into male chastity as a
lifestyle I have grown to accept it and even to have a special bond to it.

How did it happen?
Next post by me. There could be other posts by other men and women in between

 

 

Important Lessons of Male Chastity

The
Important Lessons of Male Chastity

There are many important lessons that male chastity has to impart to the men
that are brave enough to undertake the teaching, and that’s the hard part of it
all. Turning yourself over completely to another person and giving that person
the ability to decide when you’ll get to enjoy sexual release is a pretty scary
thing. No one is doubting that. It takes a courageous man to do this. One of
the biggest lessons that chastity teaches is that of selflessness. Your Key
Holder may require you to provide sexual satisfaction while denying it for
yourself. This shows your ability to give without expecting anything in return.

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Holder teach you the vital aspects of chastity. Not the least among these is
fidelity. Many men don’t understand the concept and they become serial
cheaters, condemned to roam around bedding everything that shows an interest
until they’re too old to be sexy anymore. When you have a Key Holder and are
wearing a chastity device, you’ll avoid this particular hindrance to having a
full and happy life in a committed relationship. That’s what makes chastity
worth it.

Male chastity and Are You Pleased Sexually

Are You Pleased Sexually

This is for
all the ladies out there or guys with inattentive male partners that are
interested in their men wearing male
chastity
items. Now, your husband may be the nicest guy on the planet and
give you everything you want in life, but how attentive is he in bed? Does he
do everything he possibly can to make sure that you are enjoying yourself? Or
does he do a few things that make you happy and immediately jumps to making
himself happy instead? Well, now you have a way to control his attitude a bit
by going to Koalaswim.com and finding a nice chastity device for him to wear.

You see, by
placing your partner in a male chastity
device, you are giving him something to consider. You aren’t going to give him
the key to the lock unless he does everything he can to make sure your orgasm
is beyond anything you have every experienced in the past. Now, that may seem a
bit selfish on your part to most guys, but isn’t that exactly how he is acting?
There is nothing wrong with making your husband wear one of these items, and
plenty of partners out there will sneak it on them while they are sleeping just
to prove a point.

 

Is Male Chastity for You?

Male Chastity Men

Is Male Chastity for You?

Before you
decide to go through with getting involved in male chastity, the first thing
you’ll need to do is research it heavily. This may sound like a fun little game
to play in your bedroom on occasion but most people tend to take it very
seriously, even when they’re simply playing at it. There are many reasons that
men enter a male chastity existence and you’ll want to be aware of what each
one is. You’ll also need to understand what’s expected of you. There may be
many things about male chastity that you won’t like. If that turns out to be
the truth, then you shouldn’t pursue it any further. This is a lifestyle change
that men should only enter into willingly. If it’s forced, then it loses its
meaning. That’s why you need to be sure it’s something you can truly commit to.

Something of
note is that men that practice male chastity are typically quite pleased with
their choice. They like that someone else is responsible for making all of their
decisions. They have an understanding of how beneficial it is to them that
their Key Holders are the ones giving and taking away from them. That takes a
real load from their shoulders. However, only you can decide if this is the
lifestyle for you or not.

 

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Am I ready for male chastity

Am I Ready

When is the
right time to decide you need to wear a male
chastity
device? Well, that would be the $64,000 question, now wouldn’t it?
Most guys feel it’s time when they have experienced almost everything that
sexual contact can give them and they still haven’t found that one aspect that
truly awakens them. Others feel that sex isn’t necessary in order to be happy
and they might end up choosing to wear one sooner. The point is that it is
completely up to you and your needs as to when you should purchase and wear a
device from Koalaswim.com.

If you feel
that you are ready to wear a male
chastity
device, then you probably are. But if you still have doubts on
whether or not you can go for days without getting an erection, then you might
want to hold off for a bit. You don’t want to rush into something that you just
aren’t ready to commit to after all. That could turn out to be a fairly bad day
for you if you can’t get your key from your Key Holder or out of the safe in
time. But then, it might show you a whole new aspect to humility which is
something the entire population of the world needs to know about.

Male chastity and using the rest room

Manly Men Know When to Sit

Some guys
out there take the manliness thing a bit too far at times. For instance, when
you are wearing a male chastity
device and you have to use the restroom. Now, the man that is secure with
himself and knows who he is, will walk into the restroom, find a stall, sit
down and do his business. He understands that it is difficult to urinate while
standing up and wearing a device like this. The main reason is that the penis
usually never aligns with the end hole on the device and that can cause a few
embarrassing moments depending on where you are.

The manly
man wearing a male chastity device
will walk into the same restroom and find a urinal. This urinal is usually in
between two other men and he feels the need to show off how manly he is to
them. This usually progresses into the manly chastity man trying to urinate
through an opening that doesn’t actually line up with his urethra. What results
is usually quite messy for the guy peeing, and the guys standing next to him,
as the urine will actually shoot out at odd angles and dribble onto your feet.
Just keep this in mind the next time you are out in public and have to pee.

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Male chastity and flying

Caution Regarding Flying

If you
happen to do a lot of traveling, then you might want to consider purchasing a male chastity device that is not made
out of metal. There are a few reported instances every year of a gentleman
trying to get on an airplane while wearing a metal chastity device, and they
never seem to make it through the first security check. Now, if you want to
enjoy your chastity device and fly somewhere on vacation or for business, then
you might want to look into the alternative materials that are currently available.
They will definitely make travelling a lot easier for you.

Of course,
just because you are wearing a male
chastity
device that isn’t made of metal isn’t going to guarantee that you
don’t get pulled out of a security line and searched by hand. This means that
you run the risk of being exposed since the security guard will have no idea
what his hand just brushed up against. If you want to avoid things like that
from happening at all, then pack your device in your luggage that you check
onto the plane. Even putting it in your carry-on luggage could end up setting
off screeners alarms since they won’t know exactly what that device is.

 

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Male chastity Is It Worth It?

Male Chastity Men

Is It Worth It?

When men
start thinking about trying out male chastity, they usually look into it on a
deeper level. They do this by talking to other male chastity men and visiting
online forums and communities where they can discuss the various ways of
entering into this lifestyle. They take this information and then ponder it
more closely to see if it’s something that they can do. The big question that
forms is whether or not this lifestyle is worth it or not. When you ask someone
that live this way all the time what they actually feel about it, you’ll get
various answers but the bottom line is that they all feel it’s what they’re
meant to do.

Most guys
get into this lifestyle because they’ve got a submissive personality and having
someone else in charge of their lives is exactly what they want to do. They
feel comfortable with it and actively seek out someone to figuratively crack
that whip. To these guys, a male chastity lifestyle is definitely worth it. On
the other hand, if you kind of like being your own boss, it’s probably not
going to be the lifestyle for you. Just think it through carefully before making
your choice.

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